Marriage is a lot like food. You have to nourish it with fresh, wholesomegoodness, trim off the stale parts, toss out anything going rancid and unpleasant, add a loving dose of sugar and, of course, sass it up with spice.
Melanie & David both agree on drinking good wine!
Sazerac gets jealous
I’ve been married just over seven yearsto a wonderful husband,David Ransom. I never worry about the infamous “Seven Year Itch.” David is loyal and protective like a dog. In fact my real dog, Sazerac, is quite jealous of him.
But, we are going through the Seven Year Switch.
You know how in some marriages spouses end up sleeping in separate bedroomsbecause someone snores and kicks the other one? Well, my husband recentlysuggested that it may be time forseparate refrigerators.Some marriages are testedin the bedroom; ours is being tested in the kitchen.
You see, I’ve switched to a healthier diet, and David is a man-eater. I have taken the vow of eatingcleaner food and even started cooking wholesome dishes(contrary to my earlier life). David is flirting with the concept of healthy eating and he certainly accommodates my desires to eat better. But he’s just not married to it. We are a modern day Mr. and Mrs.Spratt -one eats fat; the other eats lean.
I am Queen of Salads!
He accepts the flavorful, vegetarian dishes we now eat in solidarity with my desire to stay healthy after cancer. He seems amused and titillated (sort of and sometimes) at my efforts to cook. When we started dating Istored shoes in my unused city oven and lived on dining out and takeout. He rearranged my kitchen whenhe moved in with me.
The other night Iwatch him gamely eat his bowl of roastedchickpeas, spinach and tomatoes quietly. Sometimes he grills himself a chop for old times sake. He draws the line at bell peppers andbeets.
But when the cat’s away, the mousedoes play. My husbandis a CH-EATer. He cheat eats.After attending my Institute for IntegrativeNutrition School conference this weekend, I returned home earlier thanplanned. I caught him in the act of making a decadently rich, carb-loaded meal of big, fat sausages, bread stuffing and dark chocolate brownies (a gold star for usingdark chocolate!). On the counter wereshreds of orange Cheddar cheese and crumbs. More evidence
A recent grocery store run to stock up for a week while Iwent on book touryielded bags of chips,pretzels, porkchops, beer, peanut butter, boxed granolaand more cheese. Down the strip mall at my organicfoods store I purchased nuts, seeds, Greek yogurt and unsweetened almond milk.
We are moving to separate shelves and bins in the refrigerator. A leftovers hoarder, his area isfilled with plastic containers ofmeals past and half filled jars of who knows what. My section is bags of vegetables and yogurt. We both love pickles and eggs and especially pickled eggs. But,I draw the line at his stinky kimchi, even though he reminds me that fermentedcabbage is part of healthy, probiotic diet.
Bouquet of Cauliflowers
But, before we try separate equipment and single serving meals, we are working on cooking together, to createa healthy, happybalance of foods I love and those he desires. Marriage is give and take. I will give him less grief about his diet, and he will take more of my advice about improving it. Food is sharing love around the table.And Iwill take second helpings of love any time he serves it up!
Brewing a Cup of Love. He makes me smile in the morning
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